COUNSELLING INSIGHTS PODCAST

Episode 16: De-escalating Potentially Violent Situations

Listen Now

Or Find it on Your Preferred Platform

This Episode

Vicki and Shelly Qualtieri discuss the process of de-escalating potentially violent situations and how we need to start by learning to de-escalate ourselves. Shelly explains how anger is a secondary emotion – the bodyguard to sadness and the protector to fear. They explore practical steps that can make a difference to calm both ourselves and others. Not only can we interrupt an escalation, but Shelly embodies a perspective that sees hope in these very situations toward possible deeper connection and healing.

Listen to Our Other Episodes

May 09, 2025

Episode 37: Building a Foundation of Multicultural Competence - Part 2

Vicki and Krystel return for part 2 of their conversation on building multicultural skills into any counseling approach. In part 1, they explored cultural humility and intersectionality.  Now in part 2, they continue with culturally relevant assessment and intervention, creating inclusive language, addressing systemic inequities, and cross-cultural training. … Read More
Apr 11, 2025

Episode 36: Anger Management – Building a Toolbox

Vicki sits down with Janelle Jackiw to explore anger and the new CTRI workshop providing tools for counsellors. They unpack the power of anger as a natural and righteous emotion that can also leave big impacts. Janelle describes the importance of learning the story behind anger and the cyclical patterns that can leave people feeling out of control. She also provides several immediate and long-term strategies that can help people take back control and develop the tools they need to repair relationships. … Read More
Mar 14, 2025

Episode 35: Carrying a Toolbox and a Bundle

Vicki explores Patricia’s lifelong journey of self-discovery, highlighting how Patricia integrated the heart-centred wisdom and healing from her Indigenous ancestors into her own path. Patricia discusses balancing this with Western Eurocentric academic approaches to mental health, creating her unique method of “carrying a toolbox and a bundle” to support others. Read More
DON'T MISS OUR NEXT EPISODE

Subscribe to our Podcast Today

By signing up you agree to recieve email notifications for any new podcast releases.